Talk about the book, do not just read it
What it is
Stopping to ask, wonder and connect the story to their life builds far more language than reading the words.
Start preparing
- Ask what they see, not what happens next — pointing and naming is the level that matters early.
- Follow their interest even if it derails the plot; the conversation is the point, not finishing.
- Repeat and expand what they say: 'dog!' → 'yes, a big brown dog running'.
- Connect to their life: 'we saw a dog like that at Savta's'.
- The same book forty times is normal and useful — repetition is how words stick.
Why it matters
Children who are talked with while reading arrive at school with markedly larger vocabularies. Twenty minutes a day, with conversation, is the highest-value thing a parent can do for language.
Related
Sources
- Speech and language development milestones — American Speech-Language-Hearing Association
- Bright Futures periodicity schedule — American Academy of Pediatrics
- Start4Life — weaning and baby sleep — NHS
Compiled with AI assistance from the public sources listed above. Not yet reviewed by a clinician — check anything important against the source, with Tipat Halav or with your doctor.