Special time: 10 minutes, their rules
What it is
5–15 minutes a day per child, child-led: no questions, no commands, no teaching, phones away. The core of proven parent programs.
Always on
- Narrate and join, don't direct: 'you're building a tall tower' beats 'what colour is it?'.
- As they grow it becomes talk time — same rule: their agenda, your full attention.
Related
Sources
- Child-directed interaction: daily 5-minute special-time homework (ages 2–7) — PCIT International
- Child-directed play component (~10 min/day) — Incredible Years
Compiled with AI assistance from the public sources listed above. Not yet reviewed by a clinician — check anything important against the source, with Tipat Halav or with your doctor.